Sunday, May 24, 2009

Probably...just tired

Just a "funny" thing I was thinkin' of today... Is it just me, or am I imagine this, or is it like this? When relationships between a black woman and a white man is mentioned, in any way, it's more often that it's expressed this way: "A white man who prefer black woman" (just an example). And not "a black woman who dated white men (just an example). You see, it's most of the time a white man who like/date/etc/ a black women and not the opposite?! Why this? Something to do with genus? Culture thing? History? Or do the man see himself first? And this has probably nothing to do with bw/wm, this is probably something deeper... Aaaaaaaaaaaaaw... you see, I'm probably just tired and should probably go get some sleep... LOL... forget all this... hehe!

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well I'm one black woman who prefers white men. And there are many more black women who feel the same. So yes you are "probably just tired" lol

Anonymous said...

"Just Tired"...Go rest Andreas.

As the Anon before me stated, Many, many Black women prefer white men and as times go by even more will be more open and not hide that they like white men.

Moorena

FunkyStarkitty50 said...

I definitely prefer WM and I always have. It hasn't always been a popular sentiment, but so what?? I'm not changing what I like for anyone and they don't have to like it because I don't need anyone's approval. I know many BW who feel the same, but they don't want to get bashed by BM or their BW friends. The day a person stops caring what others think, is the day they become truly free.

Anastacia said...

Many, many black women prefer white men.It is one of the biggest hidden secrets.

GoldenAh said...

Since we get bashed by everyone, I think if a man is with us it is complimentary to express it that he - a white man - is dating, pursuing, and prefers black women.

If expressed in the second part of your sentence, it seems that it is black women pursuing (white) men.

We have enough relationship baggage, and don't want chasing (white) men to be one of them.

Although, in any case, mutual interest should render those concerns null and void.

By the way, I don't think there's anything wrong with either sentence.

Anonymous said...

We have enough relationship baggage, and don't want chasing (white) men to be one of them.

Although, in any case, mutual interest should render those concerns null and void.
__________________

Nicely said GoldenAh

It seems for now the black women are more open to express, at least through blogs own preference. And it seems as if black women are doing the chasing. But I think more white men are going to "come out" also. I mainly speak of American white men.

Moorena

Anastacia said...

Not everyone carries baggage.Black women are from many different cultures.
In Brazilian culture, it is no big deal for a black woman to say a white man is good looking or for her to even say she prefers white men.
Just remember, there are women whom there is no problem getting what they want, therefore it is no big deal to talk about preference. Men do it all the time.

And once again, some women carry no bagggage.

Unknown said...

FunkyStarkitty50,
I totally agree with everything you've said. Like you, I've always preferred WM and I look forward to seeing MORE AMERICAN WM (who claim to be attracted to BW) get over their fear of openly expressing their appreciation for BW by seriously dating and/or marrying BW.

Blondecore said...

This kind of blogz are really stupid. i am european girl, i never lived in Europe, and you (swdish creator of this blog) have american cesspool mentality... why? interracial relationship are SUICIDE! black straight males like white females, black gay males - like white males and so on... we need to preserve our heritage, i am bi-sexual so i dont have problem with lesbianism or straight euro females, but Interracial is more hurtful for both us (euro males/females) than Bestiality! And btw: Black Females DESPISE white males, its not a big secret... so bloggers like you are suiciders... if you have fetish for dark people: go to africa or USA, sweden is not place for u!

Blondecore said...

i ment to say: that i never lived in USA (not in Europe)
*embarrassed"
i need to check my spelling before posting.
bye!

Blondecore said...

I dont care about gay people. i am bi-sexual. according biology this is natural. but interracial relationship is suicide. abandoning your own heritage, despising your own european blood... shock!
find for yourself swedish girl dude, and delete or just close this entire blog (my opinion)... sick stuff.... for the first time from 70 years people in Europe elected right-wing parties to rule them, and they are openly racist toward dark people (dark males/females dont belong in europe... the only peacefull solution for us - is to deport them, with their entire families). you live in Sweden, so you know this stuff... leave interracial for USA dude... now the only allies of us europeans are "hispanics" (from mexico to brazil)... and you can see the frightening lack of education of your beloved black females - they think that "hispanics" are separate race lol - ladies, here some news for you: "hispanics" are european people (mixed from croats to norwegians and portuguese) many brazilian girls even after puberty (puberty make europeans - dark haired and eyed, but many of us still have platinum blonde hair) keep their light hair and eyes...
bye dude! i want to see your respong... you seem intelligent sexy guy (from your photo) - so i DONT get this stuff (ur blog)
.................

Anonymous said...

Blondecore we know u're a MAN!! u're exposed.

Anonymous said...

BTW Europe did not vote for right wing parties!!! Come on, Abstention 57.15% you called that a election....

FunkyStarkitty50 said...

You know that you are doing something right, Andreas, when you piss someone off. You have finally made it to the big time-- you are starting to get trolls!!! Ignore the ignorance and keep doing what you are doing!!!

Anonymous said...

I adore all types of men.What is important to me is that the man respects me and treats me the way I want to be treated.I am 40 years and and live in the USA I want to be loved by a man and not be defined by the color of my skin.Yes lately I have been physically attracted to WM they turn my head all the time and they are more receptive to me now than ever before,and I will continue to explore it

India said...

I have to agree with Anastacia. Most foreign mixed/black women, have no problem expressing their preference for white men, and don't apologize for it either. I just wish some of my AA female friends would be more open-minded to dating non-blk men or they could miss out on attractive, charismatic, intelligent men like our Andreas.

Back home, I could say "I think white men are handsome", but in the U.S I would be a "sell-out" (I've never heard of that word in my life) and I would be called every degrading word in the English language. Forget about those vile men, and live for you.

oo0mocha0oo said...

Blondcore. Your mentality is terrifying. If you do not approve of interracial relationships you should really not be on this site. One would think that is obvious....

gs said...

@laromana SO TRUE! It is so frustrating to see BW put in the place of doing ALL the heavy lifting and ALL the pursuing in IR relationships. WM need to get over their baggage and just come out already if they have that preference.