Saturday, April 18, 2009

I love my "taste"

I keep hearing this over and over from friends - "Your taste of women sucks". Just gonna make this clear first: Im very proud of my taste of women. I love what I love. But it's still interesting that some friends keeps dissing my taste. Taste is something very very subject. And I think they should be happy I got a little "diffrent" taste than the common white western european guy has. And to be honest, I very pleased with my taste and I think I'm blessed from above, getting this GOOD taste!

Maybe my taste sucks, but who cares? NOT ME!

But I'm curious, do you all out here think my taste sucks (you got some photos in my blog to refer to). Holla at this white b'woy!

27 comments:

SistaWAHMs said...

What it do white b'woy?! We just found your blog and have to say that you are a truly unique white b'woy. The question of whether or not your taste suck is not even important or worth asking anyone. Why, because our opinions do not matter. What only matters is what you already know and that is - you love your taste. Embrace it, we appreciate your appreciation of the black woman. Black women rarely see appreciation shown for who we are or what we are, and you have started a very uplifting blog. Kudos to you for that! Be you, be true, and you will be free (and because of this blog get a ton of great black woman interested you:). SistaWAHMs gives this post 2 thumbs up! Keep up the good work!

Black is Beautiful said...

Thanks for those words! :) And it doesnt matter what other people think of my taste, but it would at least be good to feel som respect sometimes... :) But it's all good - my friends know my taste - they know it BIG-TIME! :D

Anonymous said...

I have been added by literally hundreds of white guys on FB who love black girls, and they run the gamut of all kinds of different guys of all kinds of ages... they can think what they want, but I'll tell you this: you are definitely not alone in your taste. And there are a growing number of white guys coming out of the woodwork to declare that they share your taste.

Take care, keep up the good work.

Anonymous said...

awww they make fun of your taste, that's not nice. but i applaud the fact that you're proud of what you like and you don't care what other people think sometimes people will not like what they truly like for fear of what other people think. you like what you like and you stand by that, i respect that.

American Black Chick in London said...

I don't think your taste sucks! I think you have great taste...your blog has shown that your taste in black women is very diverse. At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter if your friends say your taste sucks. As longs as you know what you like and you're confident and secure in it, then what other people say doesn't matter.

If it makes you feel any better, my friends tell me all the time my taste in guys sucks. But they way I look at it, that just means my friends and I will never fight over some guy since we have such drastically different taste. As my brother always says, do you!

Orchid said...

Your taste has a wide diverse range. You need not explain it to anyone. It is yours and yours alone. Personally, I think you have wonderful taste. You have some really gorgeous women featured on this blog!
And I won't lie. your blog makes me smile :-)

dtbz said...

I think you have great taste!

Anonymous said...

Hands down black women rock my world too like you my friend.I hope you will find girl of your dreams as soon as possible. Pray for me too :) and thanks for this blog .

white boy from Istanbul

FunkyStarkitty50 said...

You like what you like and that is your business. Keep being the "Real" individual you are and you will get what you want one of these days I think that you are great!!!

laromana said...

Growing up as an Afrolatina in America with WM/NON-BM who were AFRAID to show their appreciation for BW and made us feel invisible/like 2nd class women, I really RESPECT the fact that you aren't AFRAID to show your love for BW. Your blog is an excellent example for ALL WM/NON-BM (especially American WM/NON-BM) that they should be true to themselves and not allow ANYONE to stop them from OPENLY showing their love for BW.

Sandra77 said...

Tell your friends your tastes are more sophisticated than theirs. You appreciate filet mignon, while they only eat hamburger.

Sarah Brooke said...

I don't think your taste sucks at all... I guess of course I'd day that since I'm a black female myself lol. But your friends need to lighten up and don't bump it until you try it. Or better yet keep their negative comments to themselves. Some people think I'm crazy just because I said I'd date an Indian guy, some say I'm gross etc... I'm not crazy, I will date any ethnicity. From white to asian.

Kahmmy said...

Firstly...you being attracted to black women is great!

secondly...the type of black women u're attracted to: well it seems to me that u're attracted to all types! not just media's perception of black beauty. You definitely see beauty in all it's different shapes and forms..which is impressive. :-)

Kenia said...

I dont think your taste suck at all. It is what you prefer, and your friends shouldnt react that way as if your crazy or something

Angelina said...

Your taste in women rock so don't worry about it. I just found this blog and I plan to keep coming back and I'll bring a few more friends along.

Anonymous said...

I say well done to you brother(this coming from a black/mixed brother). I feel black women are put down by the media etc and are not well represented by the media for example always putting them as if they have attitude etc I respect you for your diverse taste in our women i look up to you because there are black men who putdown these same women you display. Your taste is perfect!!!! don't change we need more of this to show black women they in the game too and NOT 2nd class... nuff love Trini-bwoi

Anonymous said...

I love black women. They just turn me on big time. They have great bodies and are just as pretty as many white girls. I'm bored of white girls myself. I'm more into indian/blacks/asian.

Most of the guys I hang with aren't into black girls but I honestly don't give a fuck. I say sweet more for me then ;). Even funnier when I look at all the digits I've got recently ... literally 90% of them have been from black girls and I've just started a thing with a georgous sweet one.

Anonymous said...

you have great taste for real
I used to think I could only date white girls then I met this one girl arlene [sudanese] and I have never gone back.
chocolate is at the tip of everyone's pallete my friend andyone who disagrees just has to try it :)

An admirer said...

One word that describes your taste in women is definitely "black." However, your taste in black women is pretty diverse, as it seems you are attracted to a variety of shades, shapes, and sizes. It's really hard to tell what type of black women you prefer, but that doesn't matter anyway. You're going to always find people that disagree with you. Continue doing what makes you happy! Good luck in your search for the one.

26 said...

Its funny becoz I remember when I was in Scotland sometimes in the 1990's there was this white who used to hang with us, (blacks, guys + gals). The funny part of is that he was married and his wife was disaproving of him hanging around black people. I never knew whether he was attaracted to the group becoz of his fancy for a certain black woman, but eventually his wife dump him for hanging around blacks.

Anonymous said...

I don't think what you have is really, a "taste", I had that word when applying it to women, I think you have a fetish for black women, a racial fetish. Perhaps you were dating black woman before and she turned you out or something else. People tend to develop racial fetishes, particularly men when it comes to women, due to an experience of some sort. Whereas I believe all women are beautiful, being a black man, I love and choose black women. But I don't have a thing for other women. Minorities, and particular black people are usually the brunt of racial fetishes, because whites want to "experience" us. In a sense, you are really doing false praise, because you really view us as different, and primal, and experience.

KC said...

I stumbled upon your blog last week and I must admit your tastes leave me a bit suspicious. Being a black woman from the Caribbean having grown up around various ethnicities I can't imagine having a "taste" for any one group- I have a taste for men (period). That combined with only in the last few years understanding and living the experience of black women in the US, causes me to think several things.
1- Your "taste" for black women would give cause for caution because it seems merely based on a fascination with our physical features. Any man with exclusive tastes for women of a different ethnicity seems to me to have more of a fascination with their physical traits and not necessarily an interest in the women themselves because they're all unique (some like those of his own ethnicity), except for the physical traits they share.
2-I've spent my adult life up until recently in the US so I don't really know what it's like where you are, but the fact that you have a blog dedicated to black woman, being a white guy makes me wonder what you're hoping to get from it. What's in it for you to stand out and be disparaged and belittled (when you're apparently not even in a relationship with one)? Why don't you at least appreciate our beauty "in addition" to the many other beautiful women of the world? I think your blog is helpful for African American women to see/know that they ARE considered attractive and that they live in a unique culture that doesn't appreciate their unique beauty. WHich leads me to my next thought......
3-Perhaps you're really a black woman who is trying to help boost her fellow sisters' esteem and encourage them to appreciate and accept the special and different ways they are beautiful? That'd be pretty clever and I'd have to give you major props for such an elaborate ruse!
I haven't figured it out yet.........If this is really your "taste" it doesn't "suck", but hopefully, if you do find someone, your interest in them will be more than just in the physical because ultimately all those physical traits blemish and fade (not literally, black stays black but you know what I mean.......) they pale in comparison to character, character that lasts and a soul that grows more beautiful over time. That's my 20 cents!

Tony (Australia) said...

KC I think you are a little harsh here. What is wrong with liking a particular race of women? Some people will go and buy a car and there choice is red...doesn't mean the car is any different. There is good and bad in all races, there are good and bad peronalities as well. He, like I have very strong preferences for women of colour that is half the battle to being happy with your choice of partner. The next part is to find someone honest, caring and has common interests with you. If i had the time i would do what this guy has done but i dont. BisB keep up the good work for all of us white guys that genuinely love African women.

D'ashianna said...

It don't matter what your taste is it just matter's if your happy or not and if that person is right for you. So you ask does your taste suck no it does not suck this is your life so you make your own decisions that's right for you.

Anonymous said...

First off I would like to say,I love your blog. One day I was just bored out of my mind and Poof here it was.Second, I think you and your "Friends" need to have a little talk about support.I personally think they shouldn't care what your taste is, If it's not Hurting you and your happy that's all that should matter. I think you have Great taste but I think that might be a little biased seeing as how I am a Beautiful Black Woman. So I guess i just wanted to Say. Thanks for your Great Taste

Anonymous said...

You have good taste because beauty comes in all races of people, including the Black race. Black women are attacked and treated unfairly because of America's racism. People like your friends are blinded by racism and bigotry. Racism prevents them from seeing the beauty in God's creation.

cyclekarl said...

Well it's good to see other like minded men,I am white and absolutely worship black women,especially the dark skin variety,they are so beautiful,I can't stop thinking and dreaming about them.