Monday, June 29, 2009

Haters...


Why all those Playa Haters (yeah i'm using that word...) here on the blog? 

All respect to all of you who show me love instead of hate/xenophobia.

76 comments:

Blondecore said...

♥♥♥i luv u Andreas ;)♥♥♥

Anonymous said...

Awwww What a nice picture. You gonna see more of that in the future. So get used to it!!!!


To Blondcore:
Andreas doesn't like u. U not his type. Get use to that too hahahaha

Anonymous said...

Andreas, I love you so much for saying that.

Anonymous said...

Who exactly are the playa haters? point them out.

foosrock! said...

Can I send you a pic of me for "Beauty of the moment?". I'd be so chuffed if you find it acceptable....

Tori C said...

Keep doin what you do!!! They wouldn't be HATIN it if we didn't LOVE IT!!
I added your blog to my roll!
Stay positive!!!

T~

Anonymous said...

Hey "BM" at 7:34pm.

This blog is not above the " BM" or the " WW", period. Just get used to that!!
I know u find it hard to believe that we black girls like white guys but that's the facts period.

And Andreas said it before that he doesn't see "WW" as love interest. It's a fact. Get use to that too. hahahahaha
There's nothing u can do about that. He doesn't like them like that, period!!!! hahahahaha

Anonymous said...

At "BM" 7:34

And the same blondcore was talking sh**t about "BM" like u a couple of weeks ago. And you come here to defend her?
What kind of Fake "BM " are you?You want me to believe u a real BM. Please

Nikaras said...

This is so cute.

Anonymous said...

Take a look at the top of the page. Blondcore is in competition with you black women, for the love of her white man. I have no love interest in blondcore whatsoever, so her utterance means nothing to this black man. I only stop by to give praise to the black woman, who is wasting her time cussing off a blonde woman over her own offspring. Allow me to dedicate this song:

"Black Woman and Child" by Sizzla
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PquS0K_EQoE

Black love, alive and well.

Anonymous said...

If i'm a fake black man for "defending" a white woman, then what is a white man who praises only black women, and has no love for the white woman from whom he came? A fake white man? lol. I tell you, your bigotry knows no rational.

kala77 said...

They just want attention and want to distract us from what you're saying. I just find it hilarious.

I just realized that the idea of a white man loving black woman and vise versa scares the sh** out of people.

Like I keep saying, support with positivity :>

Anonymous said...

Yes you fake, since this ww loves to bash bm like u that's why u fake. and u know it!!

And I can noticed that u a little irritated. Did I make u mad, fake BM? hahahahahaha

Mission accomplished.
Now beat it, beat it hahahahahha

Anonymous said...

Andreas, I adore this blog.I just hope that all the trolls and haters dont stop you from doing your thing.

Unknown said...

hey man i just wanted 2 say that i lyk ur blog n dude keep up the good work n dude if u ever r in halmstad the best summer city in sweden=) just write to me n i will give u a room=) Cheers Patrik

FunkyStarkitty50 said...

You have to have lovers in order to have haters.Let your haters be your motivators. I think that is actually a song. But Andreas, you are getting a huge fan club, so don't worry about the trolls.

sky said...

Love your blog Andreas! Screw the haters they'll have to get use to the idea that a man like you (and many more) appreciates our beauty in whatever form it is!

And whomever said that bw are your biggest haters, is the biggest liar here. You have a facebook Andreas and you know that bw have mad love for you there ( i should know ;) ).


Don't let me get to you hun, they gotta vent i guess,lol.

J. Gracey said...

The troll isn't a woman, or even a man, it's a thing. Treat it as such ignore it, move away from it as if it were a rabid dog. Release the positivity and simply walk away from and over anything else. There will be trolls throughout life. They are never worth the energy of addressing. We are more than that, we are better than that.

India said...

J. Gracey and FunkyStarKitty50, Wonderful comments. I do think Andreas' fan base is growing, and it scares these men, that more and more black women are finding out, that white men do find them attractive, charismatic, intelligent, sexy, and did I say BEAUTIFUL :)

It is beautiful to see many different races together, it is beautiful, when people take interest in different cultures such as yourself Andreas, and you know what, this blog is BEAUTIFUL, and the women are gorgeous. Andreas, don't allow those ignoramuses to bring you down for being attracted to black women.

I'm pretty sure Blondie and the anonymous black guy aren't having anxiety attacks over black men loving ONLY white women or vice versa. It's funny how he sided with her, not knowing that she
degraded black men weeks before.

Andreas, life is short...enjoy it, and live for you :)

xoxo

India said...

What an adorable picture Andreas. I just LOVE this blog.

xoxo

Anonymous said...

Hey Andreas:

Just so you know all black men ain't crazy, I think you got really good taste in women. Black women are sweet and delicious, I highly recommend them!

Only insecure brothas come on here crying about how they don't get respect. Believe me, if they had their shiznit together they wouldn't give a damn who you thought was beautiful.

Blondecore said...

"And the same blondcore was talking sh**t about "BM" like u a couple of weeks ago. And you come here to defend her?"

excuse me? i made a comments about beauty standarts not degrading people from various races and ethnic groups, plz dont use such lies toward me.
and i am PRO- this blog and others about interracial love or love in general, so i dont see why so many of u dislike me? i am reader of this blog and some time i give my opinion, nothing unusual.

lockrocker! said...

There are haters on this blog, because hatin' is so easy...
Some people do their own thing, build it up, and create somehing beautiful...
Others like to tear folks down cause it makes them feel bigger. They think taking a piece of someone else's glory makes them shine...

If they were challenged to start their own blogs, 90% of all haters couldn't make it past the 3rd post.

Anonymous said...

Andreas I love u soooo much!!!
Keep doing the good work!!!

Anonymous said...

I love my boyfriend (and yeah he's white). I just show him ur blog and he loves it.

Blondecore said...

"Blondecore, please. The only person you're in love with is yourself"
maybe i need to begin ignoring closed-minded persons like u.
as i said i am pro-love blogs, cuz internet is full with hatred.
i dont get why so many of u (i hope that i am wrong) dislike me simply because i read this particular blog. other blogs which i read are only few - my favourite fine artist - esao andrews (http://www.esao.net/)
and my favourite german hyperrealist (anoher word of this branch is: photorealism) painter - Gottfried Heinwein
http://www.helnwein.com/werke/aktionen/tafel_1.html
but when i give my opinions there no one show such dislike as u...
and i wonder why

Anonymous said...

Blondecore, the reason people here don't like you is because of the arrogant and hateful way you introduced YOURSELF on the other post. If I was just coming to this blog and seeing only your comments on this post, I would have no beef with you at all. I might even erroneously think you are a sweet and nice person. But the fact of the matter is, most of us have been here for awhile and so we know that you think you are better than black women, just for being blonde. And this is where the antagonism comes from. Weren't you gone for awhile there? What happened to that?

Blondecore said...

"Weren't you gone for awhile there? What happened to that?"
i was busy and now i have free time again. are u against my presence in this blog? i dont think that i am better than any female. this "betterness" (in the sense of beauty) can be tested, with putting my photos and comparing with your for example... this is very silly thing by the way.
i am sorry for my introduction, i have limited english words and probably you understand me in a very wrong way, but its not my fault.
for the "beef" part of your comment - i dont get it. i am vegetarian - i even dont consume honey or milk.
why so many people here dislike me (i think that "hate" is very strong word to be true in my case) is beyond me

Anonymous said...

I'm in love with this blog.

Anonymous said...

That guy in the pic is damn hot. Is he swedish too?

American Black Chick in Europe said...

@ Anon at 8:44 pm - Actually the reason some of the posters on here aren't too fond of Blondecore is because of some comments she made on this post: http://www.blackisbeautiful.se/2009/06/8-month-1-day.html disparaging black women and black men. And if you're the same Anon who implied all black women in interracial relationships have hate for black men, that makes me think that you don't really know too many black women in interracial relationships. Love is a beautiful thing across the board, be it black love, white love, asian love hispanic love or interracial love. Speaking of love, I love the picture attached to this post. So cute!

Anonymous said...

Love the blog and really glad Andreas addressed some of the negative crap people have been saying.
I agree that have no place here.
So Andreas keep up the good work and 'haters' ei:bigots, zenos, and many things that I wish not say on the net, your opinions does not change people's hearts so be gone.

JT

Anonymous said...

@American Black Chick

I read some of her statements and her reaction is no different from a lot of black women who raise hell on black men for expressing a preference for white women. Any which way you look at it, any man who spend his days idolizing a woman from another race is practicing discrimination and hatred of all the women from his own race. People can pretend all they want this behavior is hurtful to others. We are human beings with emotions. Nobody likes the idea of being totally rejected by their own, who talk bullshit about "I don't own you, and you don't own me." People have a sense of belonging. We are social animals. We belong firstly we those who gave birth to us - family. Then the wider community of people who look like and behave like us - the ethnic or racial groups. Anyone who discount these things is a liar and a fraud.

Just imagine this Swedish white man on a blog loaded with images of black women telling all the white Swedish women in his country "Look at these black women. This is what true beauty is about!" Then flip it the other way around and see a black preacher man holding up posters with images of white women saying to a congregation of mostly black women: "Look at these white women. This is what true beauty is about!" Wtf? You must be a mad man.

Anonymous said...

@ Anonymous 1:43

"People have a sense of belonging. We are social animals. We belong firstly we those who gave birth to us - family. Then the wider community of people who look like and behave like us"

HOGWASH

Define "look like us."
Define "behave like us?"

If all of humanity were dogs, we would not even be different breeds—we'd all be labradors,(with different colored coats)

http://www.bestdogsearch.com/listpic/labradors-moonlit1.jpg

Unlike other animals, there is only one BREED of human bieng.

When you get with another human, he or she does "look like you!!" Any differences are purely superficial. Where you asleep during biology class?

As for thinking that skin color can predict the way people act... you might as well join the Klan if you really believe that, so I'm only going to say this once. ALL BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT ACT THE SAME. PERIOD!

As for "belonging" to the group, that is a choice, you can choose where you belong and whom you belong with. When did ethnicity mean you are a slave of the collective? The very meaning of the word "individual" means that you belong first to yourself and that implies both choice and freedom.

You are tragically, tragically, wrong in your assumptions.

Anastacia said...

Anonymous July,1:43 a.m:
Get a grip of yourself. You sound like a fool.
Who cares about all of that?
Andreas' blog does not hurt anyone?He is not discriminating against anyone.
Why don't you put up a blog honoring someone?
I get the impression that some of the anonymous commenters are responding to Blodecore.
I am convinced that Blondecore is a troll along with some of the anonymous commenters and together their agenda is to converse, deviate and sabotage Andreas' message.

lockrocker! said...

Thank you Anastacia. Trollery is not so much an expression of a person's opinions, so much as a game that some play to disrupt the enjoyment of others. With that being said, we could have one person with a lot of time on heir hands, entertaining themselves by pushing our buttons. Best to ignore.

Blondecore said...

u hit my nerves about me being a troll. cant u black female users here just ignore me or something? most of my comments are toward Andreas not you, so plz stop replying to me!
in my introduction to this blog i was suprised to see so strong fetish toward black females, nothing unusual, and now i accepted it as something normal.
use your "grace" and "intelligence" to fight with real online trolls which depict black females as horrible beasts, not me, so stop writing to me!!!!:
http://www.nothingtoxic.com/media/1240620191/Black_Club_Skanks_Get_Into_Huge_Catfight_in_The_Streets

http://www.nothingtoxic.com/media/1217903754/Big_Fat_Black_Chick_Beats_Girl_From_Outside_Car

Ibou said...

When I read the comment on this blog the only hatred I see is from women hating on black men.

I don't care if black women choose to date white men or not. But personally I don't feel a need to triumphantly write comments that celebrate those white women that happens to like black or brown men.

Andreas is doing his thing and he has his right to do so. And if this blog makes black women happy then I guess he is doing a good job. I come here, just like most men, because there are beautiful pics. I wish there could be more serious discussion about IR-dating though (from a bw/wm point of view). We all know that it can be difficult some times.

PS: I will probably be "attacked" here because I'm not a white man. But it's a free world and I have the right to express my thoughts - just like you all.

Ibou said...

Blondecore: I have read some of your comments and you write provocative stuff. I can understand if some of the black women get offended here.

Blondecore said...

To Pa Ibou:
first they used very harsh words toward me after i made a mere comment how unusual (for me) is some people to have such strong fetishes. now i accept this as something normal, but the problem is: when i made comments toward Andreas some black female users (and not all of them, just few) begin to attck me verbally which is not nice at all!
i am reader of this blog, because have some really nice photos of black female models, musical clips and is generally is pro-love blog: as i said - internet is full with hatred and is very refreshing to see blogz like this...
bye

American Black Chick in Europe said...

@ Pa Ibou - I agree that a more critical discussion of IR relationships from the BW/WM perspective would be nice, especially from the WM perspective (I've already seen some from the BW perspective), but I think that's difficult to achieve. Invariably it turns into a BM bashing session (or BW bashing session if it's a discussion of IRs from the BM/WW perspective) by some instead of an actual discussion. I've only seen a handful of blogs that really try to have a discussion around black folks in IR relationships, one that doesn't involve a theme of "the reason I date IR is because black me are dogs/black women are horrible."

Ibou said...

American Black Chick: I agree with you and to be honest I have read alot of awful comments from BM towards BW also so I'm not here to take side and start a fight with some of the women here. I can understand some bitterness though - both from bw and bm towards interracial dating and the beauty standards of the world.

To date interracially sometimes take alot of courage and energy so it would be interesting to hear from a wm his opinion. I know many ww that dates bm here in Sweden and I know how they feel about it but I never heard a wm speak much about it. Maybe Andreas could create a platform for that experience here.

Anon: I agree with you too. There are many bm that celebrate the beauty in bw. Music, poetry, in real life.

Anonymous said...

I'm a black woman and all I can say is that I date compatible white men because I'm attracted to them. That's it. It has nothing to do with black men. They can date who they want to date. We individual, so we can date who we want to date regardless the race. And since this is a blog about bw and bw with wm all u can expect when u come here is that the bw here like wm period. And that's want we want to discuss here. We don't want people to come here to try to change that. Because you wasting ur time.
We all grown men and women here that know exactly what we like or not.

Ibou said...

"And since this is a blog about bw and bw with wm all u can expect when u come here is that the bw here like wm period. And that's want we want to discuss here. We don't want people to come here to try to change that. Because you wasting ur time."

I thought this blog was about the beauty of black women? To uplift black women. I didn't know that this blog is strictly for bw and wm and that no other people can make comments and apprechiate black beauty. Should I only be able to discuss topics on blogs that are for women that only likes mixed guys? Since I'm not white?

I have not seen a sign on this blog that says that no black, mixed or brown guys can make any comments...

Anonymous said...

Pa Ibou,

That comment wasn't for u. It's for the people that come here acting like if u a bw that love wm u sellout. Or u must have issues with black men.
Or that u out of u mind and that they need to correct u on that.
All I can say is that I know exactly what kind of men I want. And I will not go to a blog to try to convince anyone why. So they don't have to come to this particular blog to try to convince me to do the opposite.

Anonymous said...

Pa Ibou,

I think this blog is not just for black women and white men, but for everyone who appreciates the beauty of black women. That being said, I don't understand the assumption that just because the black women here like white men, we hate black men, or the reverse assumption - that because Andreas thinks black women are beautiful, that blonde Swedish women have to be offended by that. In truth, beauty comes in all forms and we have to respect one another, understand that attraction is an individual thing, and not feel like anyone "belongs" to someone else because of skin color! That is so foolish! With all the hatred in the world, it's about damn time we see some images celebrating love!

Anonymous said...

Anonymous @ 1:43AM, sorry to say but if a black man did that, I would not be offended. Heck, they do it already - it's called "The White Girl Song." Truth is, black men are free agents and can do whatever they want - and that means date whomever they want. I can see the appeal of white women. They are beautiful, in their own individual ways. And I am not remotely threatened by their particular type of beauty. I would expect the same from them - if white men are declaring they love black women for OUR particular kind of beauty, white women should understand that that in no way detracts from or takes away from their own. There is BEAUTY in DIFFERENCE, and I'm grateful as hell that we don't live in a one-tone, monotone world.

revolution girl said...

anon @6:06am, 6/30:

just wanted to commend you on your comment since it seems to have gone unseen in all the craziness. :)

Anonymous said...

I'm still enjoying the pic in this post. that guy is just killing it softly with his sexyself!!

Anonymous said...

Let's talk about love now people?
Common tell me what's love?
For me love is when you want to be with that person 24/7. He's 24/7 on your mind. That u know he got u back and u his in any circumstances.
AWWWWWW I'm soooo in love . Love is the most precious thing God give us. Let share the love with the rest of the world people.

Anonymous said...

Enjoy this video people .
And remember let's make love!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9E5TjseBKLo&feature=channel_page

J. Gracey said...

carib.girl and Anon@ 6:06 you are wise people.

India said...

Thanx J. Gracey, your comments are as well.
Andreas you are doing a wonderful job with this blog, I'm sorry it's turned into a hate fest, that is far from what you wanted it to be.

Sandra77 said...

Andreas, thank you for your beautiful blog. You make the world a better place. Keep blogging.

Anonymous said...

If Blondcore is a black man, he's a really good actor. . . no.
I know there is at least one black man trolling this blog, but that doesn't mean every troll is a black man.

Blondecore said...

"Blondecore is really a black man. This is how sick some black men are and how much they hate black women and even themselves."

its clear which one of us have hatred toward specific groups of people based on their features and skin/hair color, dont u think?
friendly advice: stop your obsession with me, start ignoring me and enjoy your simple life, is that ok?

Anonymous said...

I agree that Blondecore is a black man! Some people just need to get a life.

Anonymous said...

Why would you think Blondcore is a black man? That doesn't even make sense. Claiming she is is just going to fuel claims that black women hate black men. Maybe I just don't get it because I'm an African woman, not American, but I'm starting to think some of the women here do hate black men. Not cool, guys.

India said...

Anonymous July 2, 2009 10:20 PM,

I do agree, that the comment was distasteful, BUT if you are going to take the time to point out her unpleasant statement, you might as well point out the unpleasant statements some black men have been making on this blog. They are all wrong for making rude comments. This blog has turned into a hate fest, because of those foolish men (they know who they are).
It's not COOL, how these men came on here to attack women like myself, in interracial relationships. His comments are offensive. I'm starting to think, that the black man frequenting this blog doesn't like black women...THAT'S not COOL.
I don't know, maybe it's because I'm a Caribbean woman, and not an African woman.

I am not trying to argue. I just don't like how those men incited hate on this blog, because that is why a lot of women on here are disgusted. My boyfriend use to enjoy observing this blog, but since those ignorant black men started leaving nasty comments, he kind of laid off for a while. He's tired of seeing disrespectful statements every time he tries to read/write comments...I don't think that's right.

Blondecore said...

when some of black female users here used their "witty" (agressivelly stupid) verbal attacks toward me i just respond them with the same manner. and yes, i am pro-interracial, but as i said: love for dark skinned haired females is beyond me (and dont take this too personal plz)... and i dont understand why my opinion matter so much to you? is this make me horrible person? am i so nasty? is this make me anti-interacial love?

my questions are not rhetorical, so please answer them in calm manner

kala77 said...

not that I was actually trying to start a conversation with you, but to be frank don't expect BW on here to show you any repect. I know I don't. Your comments speak for themselves. But instead of owning up to what you said, you're playing the victim. Pretty pathetic.

LOL. How narcissistic of you. I pretty much ignored your comments because I didn't want to detract attention from what this blog was meant for. I am and will continue to be positive despite the comments some people have made.

"love for dark skinned haired females is beyond me (and dont take this too personal plz)"

LOL, wow, you pretty much have already admitted that you think that white women are superior to black women in your past comments, so there really isn't much to add. Thats why you feel like this blog is so strange.

Please, just stop pretending that you actually care about BW because its not working. I really think you're just here because you feel entitled to be here because you're white and european and so is Andreas.

so all these:

"♥♥♥i luv u Andreas ;)♥♥♥"

and

"u draw really good.
are u professional artist or work for commercial/marketing industry?"

When you're saying:

"black females dont have any class or grace!
black females are whores (no joke - search scientifical articles on google)"


Just shows how disingenuous you are.

PS: incase you didn't get the hint while you were calling black women whores...you're the "hater"

Anonymous said...

@Carib.girl

I agree. I already did respond to some of their comments, as well as to our resident non-black troll. I'm anonymous, so you can't tell.:)✿

Blondecore said...

so when i "protect" myself from your verbal attacks im "playing the victim"?

"LOL, wow, you pretty much have already admitted that you think that white women are superior to black women in your past comments, so there really isn't much to add. Thats why you feel like this blog is so strange."

i dont think that white females are superior to anyone, i dont like them/you visually but its only me, i am nobody - just another anonymous person which cant change the world, so i dont undesrtand why my opinion matter to you.
i am reader of this blog for two reasons:
really nice photos of black females and musical clips.
and i like the idea of promoting love between people.

Anonymous said...

To blondcore (aka undercover racist)

Since u claim that u promote love I'm pretty sure u will enjoy this video:) hahahahahahaha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9E5TjseBKLo&feature=channel_page

Blondecore said...

and i almost forget: this is from the street techno parade "Fuckparade"
the greatest event in europe

Blondecore said...

my last message for one week:
go to Fuckparade 2009 and you can experience good attitude toward your black selfs... people there will embrace you with love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUVFJtS9IBs
buh bye

Blondecore said...

friendly advice: but be prepared if you cant take the music you can get really severe headache and even cma (no joke)
try these two speedcore/hardcore techno "songz" haha
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VdTz3be3Pc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6837sltFHAo

Anonymous said...

To all: Please ignore Blondecore.If we ignore her/him/it, everything will be all right.

Anonymous said...

Hahah, it's kinda ironic considering your posting history, but did you know that techno is a product of black people? Techno is very popular in Europe but it isn't the Europeans who made it in the first place:

Techno is a form of electronic dance music (EDM)[1] that emerged in Detroit, Michigan, USA during the mid to late 1980s. The first recorded use of the word techno, in reference to a genre of music, was in 1988.[2][3] Many styles of techno now exist, but Detroit techno is seen as the foundation upon which a number of subgenres have been built.[4]

The initial take on techno arose from the melding of Eurocentric synthesizer-based music with various African American styles such as Chicago house, funk, electro, and electric jazz.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Techno

Here is a picture of the Belville Four, who are credited as being the founders of techno:

http://www.freebase.com/view/wikipedia/images/en_id/15092956

India said...

I like Techno, and many other styles of music. I also like SOME old school hip hop, but not the new age rap garbage, they call music (sounds weird coming from a 23 y/o). I refuse to listen to music, that degrades women, and calls me a "Ho" and "Bitch" every five seconds. It just doesn't seem right.

xoxo

Anonymous said...

" i am pro-interracial, but as i said: love for dark skinned haired females is beyond me (and dont take this too personal plz)... "


Well, it's like this blondecore: some men don't want women who are going to age like prunes without extensive Botox. Simple as that. You don't have to understand it. Just support it because it's not going away.

summermidknight said...

The opposite of love is indifference so you know if you have haters you're doing something right!
I look forward to exploring this blog more. I love it!

Fi'ola'kemi said...

This is such a lovely picture! Reminds me of a picture I took with my then-boyfriend. Ignore the hateful people, Andreas. Those who embrace darkness will always rebel when someone like you insists on walking in the light. It is clear you are a loving, good person and this is a great blog.

Danielle said...

I love your blog. It's so great to see Black women in all varieties,and all gorgeous. And nice to see someone who appreciates us so much. :)

grooVemonzter said...

I think black women are the most beautiful women on earth. That's just my opinion. I'm not "against" anyone and I'm not trying to put anyone else down. But I know what I like. And I like what I like. I like black women. And yah, just to let the world know, I'm a white guy. Irish/German. Thank you Andreas for putting this blog up. Respect.

Nice place said...

One of my favorite picture of this blog, especially for its token and feeling scope.
Not only because they are each one beautiful, but they are still more beautiful together, as they inconsciously join their shoulder and incline head toward each other, in their peaceful and serene nap. It makes us guess a nice love, and at least a great happiness.
I feel good watching this very nice picture that should be shown to all the Montaigu and Capulet of our world.

Great picture !