Friday, July 31, 2009

Black is beautiful - all shades

Got this e-mail:

"...i felt proud to be a black woman seeing all the beautiful pictures of my race while scrolling down your webpage until i got to the picture of beyonce and saw how you spoke of her. I am a faired skin african american woman who gets treated the same as a dark skinned black woman..."

Get me right now - i love black women - light skinned, medium skinned, dark skinned (or whatever you wanna call it). Thats is all true. But my topic about Beyonce etc was about black women trying to look like white women. That is something I'm not a big fan of. To be honest I cant even understand why a black woman, as this earth's most beautiful "creation" (my own personal statement), want to look more white? I like it natural. Black and natural. That is beautiful to me.

27 comments:

Nanulak said...

Yes I think the same about this.

I read about black women using things to bleach skin and use products called weavers(?) to lengthen hair. I do not understand this at all. It's like white women using products to make their eyes appear asian. It doesn't make sense and takes away from the women's unique beauty so why do this?

Black IS beautiful on a woman! There's no problems!

Anonymous said...

Arvid sweetie, thanks for appreciating the natural black beauties.

xoxo

Blondecore said...

Arvid:
can you answer my simple question? are you attracted by white females or only black/asian/dark?
if you like only dark womens you are fetishist :(
compare these females and your behaviour - same thing!
http://www.beastforum.com/showtopic-147316.html

you have their mentality Arvid....

Blondecore said...

and to this anon user, another question:
you said that black is beautiful, and many of you claim that "colonialsim" is to blame foraccepting blonde light eyed/skinned females as extreme beautiful and feminine.
But how you can explain such animations from japan, which depict desirable females as being: very skinny and light haired and eyed?
for example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2vOqZ5m2cUI (this animation depict rape, seuxal perversions, lesbianism and sexism, so this is one of the fewer episodes which are "normal" just dont watch it after 1:55; because become again morbid)
Japan never was a european colony, so your opinion is really matter to me. I think that you are enough intelligent, calm and capable for being able to provide good answer

Anonymous said...

Arvid thanks once again. You a real gentlemen!

Blondecore said...

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... whaaaat???
Japan never was a colony for europeans. They have long trading history with europeans (From Netherlands especially) and in their illustrations they depict only white males, not females, so they didnt know how their women look exactly... can you explain to me - why most of the people in two races (actually more proper therm is "sub-races" because on our planet have only one human race - homo sapiens, and everything else is just enviormental adaptation: hair, skin, eyes, pigments, short, fat etc... many afro-americans are short and fat for one reason - they are desdents from pygmy slaves. This african ethicity is incapable to become tall and/or slim) in east asia (south Korea and Japan) put white females with skinny bodies, light skin/hair/eyes on some sort of "ideal feminine prototype"? i have a answer, but i am open to other possibilities. colonialism is not one of them.
not only that but also japanese people have some sort of "addiction" toward white females kissing each other. From their medieval poetry depicting light haired and skined females to nowadays with their animation style - this is prefference wired in their DNA.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZV8BTGlP64
just dont watch it after 4:04 if you are easily offendable.
=^_^=

Anonymous said...

"Actually what he's saying is that black women are more beautiful when they are darker and look more afrocentric, and to continue looking like that, they must stay with their black men, and stop chasing after white men. Did I get that correct white bwoy? lol"
What motivates a BM to say things like this, over and over? It's really simple actually. For one he feels that women who look like him are "his" to do with as he pleases. Woe to the BF who doesn't feel like she's BM's property. He probably wouldn't be too upset if his son takes up with a WF, but would become distraught and enraged if his daughter took up with a WM. Why? Tribalism. The same sort of mindset involved with invaders on a foreign land killing the men, but procreating with the women. Basically, in short this guy hates, hates, hates white males. A white male who likes BW is a definite no-no. He probably likes calling all white males (regardless of age) "boy", a common pathology among BM in the inner city. Despite any noble-sounding reasons for this guy's hatred, which it what it is, it is simply racism, straight up. He should just admit it and say "look, I hate your white a**, and the BW who would be with you". I'd have more respect for him. So, keep up the good work Andreas. You must be doing something right to get guys like this so upset they keep posting here with that BS.

D said...

To Blondcore,

One of the subtitles for this blog is 'Uplifiting the black woman'. I've read yor comments from other posts and you come across as someone who does not want to 'uplift the black woman.' Anytime someone says something good about black women you try to argue against them. If you're not here to recognise the beauty of black women which Andreas is trying to do, then you shouldn't bother posting in this blog otherwise your comments just come out as 'hate' and I'll even go as far at to say 'racist' comments. I'm sorry to say this if you haven't realised yet.
I just don't understand why you desparetly insist on staying in a place where your negative thoughts are obviously not welcome.

Anonymous said...

If all black people are short and come from the African Pygmy race how do you explain the Masai who are very tall or the Sudanese who are also tall. You watch to many old school documentaries blondcore seriously you should get out more and learn a little more about the African dispora otherwise keep your mouth shut because its obvious you don't know shit.

Black Valkyrie said...

"Actually what he's saying is that black women are more beautiful when they are darker and look more afrocentric, and to continue looking like that, they must stay with their black men, and stop chasing after white men."

Looks like our mouthbreather has trouble reading now, so I'll hold his hand and walk him through it like with any other 6-year old boy. LOL Andreas just said he thinks ALL shades of black in a woman are beautiful to him, and that he likes things NATURAL. NO Beyonce-style make-up and other stupid crap. Natural African-style beauty, skin and fros instead!

You know what? I think he makes such a wonderful point! So this white b'woy came up with the idea to make a site about praising NATURAL beauty of black women before you ever did (gee I wonder why!) and now you're pissed that he gets the praise and the love and attention instead of you? But baby you got noone to blame but you! It's not like u weren't given a chance to do it! You just didn't bother with it while the white b'woy did, and THAT makes all the difference!

LOL reminds me of something I read on lipstick alley once I think:

-White men: if at first you don't succeed then try again.
-Asian men: if at first you don't succeed then try something else.
-Black men: if at first you don't succeed then blame someone.

Anonymous said...

"Natural African-style beauty, skin and fros instead!"

You only get that from black man and black woman unions. Interracial can't produce that. lol. Black is beautiful. Love it.

Anonymous said...

@ Black Valkyrie

"LOL reminds me of something I read on lipstick alley once I think:

-White men: if at first you don't succeed then try again.
-Asian men: if at first you don't succeed then try something else.
-Black men: if at first you don't succeed then blame someone."

Why don't you try telling that to the Nelson Mandelas, Michael Jordans, Chris Gardners and many other unsung heroes, you black man-hating bigot.

I told y'all before. You can't discredit us. LEARN SOME BLACK MAN HISTORY:

Christopher Paul Gardner (born February 9, 1954 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin) is a self-made millionaire, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and philanthropist who, during the early 1980s, struggled with homelessness while raising his toddler son, Christopher, Jr. Gardner's book of memoirs, The Pursuit of Happyness, was published in May 2006.

As of 2006, he is CEO of his own stockbrokerage firm, Gardner Rich & Co, based in Chicago, Illinois, where he resides when he is not living in New York City. Gardner credits his tenacity and success to the "spiritual genetics" handed down to him by his mother, Bettye Jean Triplett, née Gardner, and to the high expectations placed on him by his children, son Chris Jr. (born 1981) and daughter Jacintha (born 1985). Gardner's personal struggle of establishing himself as a stockbroker while managing fatherhood and homelessness is portrayed in the 2006 motion picture The Pursuit of Happyness, starring Will Smith.

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D said...

I don't know what your ethnicity is but as a young black woman I feel that we really do need uplifting. Yes, we are beautiful like all other women but somehow because of the media (which is controlled mainly by rich, white males) black women on tv are either not potrayed, or if they are potrayed then it's usually lighter skinned females who seem to be considered the only acceptable black females for tv or in the case of America negative portyals of black women as all being ghetto. This is a problem because since black women aren't seeing themselves in the media, they can't help but think that maybe the public in general doesn't want to see black women because they don't find them attractive.

Now about which race of women I find attractive, there isn't one. Maybe since I'm straight, I only find certain women individually attractive. Doesn't matter what their race is. But see the same goes for guys as well. When I first look at a guy I dont think "He's Columbian and he's hot." I just think "oh, he's hot". Because when I look at him I'm noticing the features on his face that are NOT typical. The things that make him 'him' even if he were a different race. Otherwise why should I be attracted to him only and not every other latin person that I see. Which seems to be whats hapening in your case with caucasian females.

Blondecore said...

people take some things which are clearly satire, just too serious.
This is one clear example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_29KYJrUIA

this girl created this joke video (here she is 18 years old) where she claim that along with her girlfriend seduced 13 year old girl... and of course on comment section have posters from the type of "Harry Potter" losers (whitewomensuck.blogspot.com) where they make annoying comments where they thhread her with - police....
crazy people... even if she said that this is only a joke, these bastards just "love" (some sort of addiction) to mock white females (even if they themself are white).
is so sad (for them) to be full with such strong hate toward your own kind.

NAt said...

That is exactly what Ive been saying for a long time. All women should be regarded as beautiful. To many women whether it be your own race or as you like to call them blondcore (sub races) are pitted against each other without understanding why. Individuals will have their preferences in the type of women they like. Just like women who like only women or men etc. Its just nice to come on this website and see the appreciation for us darker skinned girls by someone not of our color, it just means that we are regarded with beauty just as looking at other women of other ethnicity and appreciating them for their differences. People who make hatred sites about what they hate (white women suck.com) for example are self haters and just create retaliation and a reason for another group to hate each other. Anger is just one letter away from danger and most people will react before they sit and think about what another is saying. I don't agree with everything you say but I'm not far off trying to understand where you or anyone else is coming from. Ladies before we react we need to ask questions and find out the root of the problem really is. Blondcore you are not a cum dumpster or whatever it is you were called unless you give power to the name but neither are some of us black females. I can only really speak for myself but people need to really take responsibility for their words and actions.

Anonymous said...

"I like it natural. Black and natural. That is beautiful to me."

That is beautiful to me too. No diluting of the black gene around here.

Anonymous said...

Anon 9:59AM

I agree 100% with you!!!!

Blondecore said...

and these are not few cases.
recently here is this boy or "girl" kim petras from germany:
http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/Kim_Petras

japanese people even created anime cartoon/game parody about this "feminization" of euro boys.

http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/Bridget


but anon: show me your photo, let me see if you are normal-sized non-stereotypical black female

Anonymous said...

Anon 9:59AM

I agree 100% with you!!!!


Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Blondecore, you want to talk about stereotypes? Okay, can we talk about why all you White women like to have sex with dogs, other animals, and why you worship Black men? You want her to show you her photo? Why don't you show us yours so we can se that you are the typical nasty, washed-out looking, SKINNY/NO SHAPE White female who looks 75 when she is only 30.

Anonymous said...

"Blondecore, you want to talk about stereotypes? Okay, can we talk about why all you White women like to have sex with dogs, other animals, and why you worship Black men? You want her to show you her photo? Why don't you show us yours so we can se that you are the typical nasty, washed-out looking, SKINNY/NO SHAPE White female who looks 75 when she is only 30."

Why do u black women worship white men and hate the white man's mother?

Blondecore said...

oh just stop! i NEVER do such disgusting (it is!) thing as sex with animals!
as for my taste for males: i dont care for their color, only their facial structure.

but in most cases: light haired males from scandinavia and baltics are my type: i have a "thing" for sharp feminine faces.
its really hard to find, young male with such face structure in south europeans or western (britons and usa anglo-saxon desdents), and impossible in black males and asian. Only in scandinavia and Balticum have males: both very tall and possesing such faces which i rly love:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/afotografia/171190288/

and its funny that i am called "racist" just because i used obscene slurs toward my verbal attackers, but in reality: u are just bigoted racist anon black girlie. find for yourself some male/female from whatever race (i hate to use such word: more proper is "sub-race", because actually we are all part from one human race) and be happy!

Blondecore said...

and if you like so much white males anon girl, then here some japanese parody video game and hilarious review, depicting white guys as stupid sissy mofos ;)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1njLpZDfUCQ

and dont worry, is just a parody: people are so serious nowadays, its frightening. learn something called "humour" ppl

Blondecore said...

anon from where you get these ideas about white females? no one here think like you.
stop being so hostile toward me

the only time where i was racist toward black females, is when some
dumbasses like u start attacking me, and after that i just use some obscene slurs to defend myself.

but you just dont stop! you probably have some white girlfriends and with no doubt you with them are friendly person, so stop being such hypocrite!

Anonymous said...

Everyone needs to stop with the nasty back and forth. BlondeCore I don't even understand why you visit this blog. If you think your comments are warranted on one of the few uplifting sites for women of color, let me explain and offer to you that its just the opposite. What is so threatening about one man's desires for a woman or race of woman that look nothing like you? Dare I say that you are the one obsessed. Because I've yet to see you contribute something thought provoking to this discussion. Just move on to a site where your views are shared and uplifted. Trust me they outnumber this one.

Anonymous that hates interracial dating, well thats your right, but thanks to your views and rhethoric I'm opening myself up to the option. In the past I've dated only black men and though no man no matter color is perfect, I've found something lacking in the mates I've paired up with. I plan to explore people regardless of race and make all those mixed color babies if I choose too. So bugger off.

Have a good day.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry, but I find it EXTREMELY arrogant for you to say that Beyonce is trying to look white...especially since she beats EVERY white girl I've seen in the looks category. Trust, if she were hell-bent on looking white, she wouldn't have married the man she married. Dyeing your hair blonde does NOT mean you want to be white. You act like the chick is bleaching her skin and rocking blue contacts! I rock a TWA that I dye a light brown because I feel like it compliments my skin tone. Certainly not because I want to appear white.

Honestly, I think its a somewhat racist assumption to think that every BW who does this or that to her hair is trying to be white. Believe it or not, but not everything that BP do is in connection with or reacting to white people! Simply put IT AIN'T ALL ABOUT Y'ALL! DAMN!

In addition to that, where's all this love for Afrocentricity when you post all these pictures of BW with RIDICULOUS looking piles of weave stacked on their heads? Some of it in colors that I can guarantee don't match the hair underneath it. They're all over your site! C'mon now...at least keep it consistent. Or at least don't talk about Bey when you admire women who are doing the same shit! It truly sounds like you're hating on her because she's light-skinned.

And as ignorant as anonymous may sound, he makes a good point. This natural Afrocentric look that you say you're so in love with is produced by two black people having children. The child you'd have with a BW (especially with your very light skin and hair) would probably look a lot more like Beyonce, so I suggest you be careful about who you diss.